Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. You are too young to deal with this. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance.
Good luck to you and your boyfriend. You should also be willing to date other people. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week.
Stages of a Healthy Relationship. I have done it many times and the repercussions are that they treat me very poorly, but th. I too suffer the same problem. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings.
No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. Gain Essential Business Knowledge. These are also only the American statistics. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it.